
- Commitment Styles
- What does being in a relationship or commitment mean to you?
- How can you help each other feel secure?
- What are some realistic expectations?
- What are some unrealistic expectations?
- What’s non-negotiable /a deal-breaker?
- Conflict Management
- How do you deal with disagreement?
- How do you communicate when you’re hurt or upset?
- How do you apologize?
- What do you need to feel comforted? (communication, space, reassurance)
- What can you do differently when you argue or fight?
- Sex and Intimacy
- What do you like in bed?
- What are your kinks and fantasies?
- What makes you feel uncomfortable?
- What makes you feel sexy?
- What are your preferred non-sexual ways to build intimacy?
- Family
- Do you want children?
- What are your ideas around childcare and parenting?
- What’s the history of relationships in your family?
- What are some family traditions you observe/ wish to observe?
- How much time do you see yourself spending with each other’s family?
- Money
- What are your personal financial goals?
- What are your financial goals in the relationship?
- What money is shared?
- What money is independent?
- Who will manage / pay for what part of the expenses?
- Beliefs, Dreams, Values
- What are your religious / spiritual beliefs?
- What are your core personal values?
- What are your common values?
- What does success mean to you?
- Where do you see yourself/ your relationship 5 years from now?
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